This is a short chapter and seems kind of like a recap or intermission
to me - reflecting on the last few chapters and hinting at what's to
come.
You are reminded of the three underlying issues for
emetophobia: external locus of control, low self-esteem, and social
anxiety. The rest of the chapter explains how each one of these three
negatively affects the other two (and gives examples).
If you
have an external locus of control, it's going to lead to you having
lower self-esteem and more social anxiety. If your self-esteem lowers,
you're going to have more social anxiety and your locus of control will
become more external. If your social anxiety increases, it will lower
your self-esteem and again make your locus of control more external.
That's
the bad news. The good news is that the same goes for moving in a
positive direction. If you improve with any one of these three, it will
lead to improvement with the other two. So you don't have to tackle
fixing all three at once because even focusing on just one, you can't
help but have an effect on the others at the same time.
Which is
awesome and very hope-inspiring. I'm looking forward to the development
of this idea and more specific tips on improving in the three areas.
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